Terry Van Parrish

Terry Van Parrish, a beloved husband, father, and grandfather, passed away peacefully Thursday at his home in Kernersville, with his dedicated wife Mary Ruth by his side. Terry had recently celebrated his 80th Birthday, filled with joy and laughter at First Baptist Church of Kernersville. It was a beautiful day and Terry, as always, so enjoyed being surrounded by his loved ones. Terry, also known as Dad and Didi, to his cherished four grandsons, spent his life in his hometown, loved by his community. He built a life based on Faith in God, a tremendous love of Family, and lasting Friendships. 

Terry was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease in 2010 and fought, without complaint, for the last 14 years. He bravely volunteered to serve as a pioneer in a successful study of the tricuspid valve clip at Presbyterian Hospital in Charlotte, NC. This was just one of the many ways he battled the disease and its effects to help others. Always by his side was his wife, Mary Ruth Corder Parrish, his two children Meredith and Andrew, and their families. 

Mary Ruth said her husband of 58 years was always positive and determined to enjoy life. His greatest joy was spending time with his family. Terry was preceded in death by his parents, Vestal Willis, Sr. and Agnes Clark Parrish, and one brother V.W Parrish, Jr. Terry is survived by his wife, Mary Ruth Corder Parrish; his daughter Meredith Parrish Sparrow, her sons Connor and Evan Sparrow; his son Andrew Parrish, wife Amy Beach Parrish, and their sons Jack and Nick; and a nephew Charlie Parrish, wife Monni Parrish. His impact on their lives and the love they have for him is immeasurable. As a constant source of strength, support, and patience, his devotion to his family was unwavering.

Terry retired from RMIC as a Claims Manager in 2014 after more than 25 years with the company. He was an active member of First Baptist Church in Kernersville, where he sang in the choir, was a deacon, taught youth, and served on several committees. 

Terry’s humor and contagious laughter will leave all who knew him with the happiest of memories. He will be remembered most for his compassionate heart, his perseverance, and his love of life. Terry, Dad, Didi- leaves behind a legacy of joy and kindness. He will be greatly missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him.

A funeral service will be held at 2:00 pm on Sunday, September 22, 2024, at First Baptist Church with Rev. Jim Cohn and Rev. Patrick Snow officiating. Family will receive friends immediately following the service in the church fellowship hall. Burial will take place on Monday, September 23, 2024, at 11:00 am at Eastlawn Gardens of Memory. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to First Baptist Church’s Backpack Fund at 401 Oakhurst Street, Kernersville, NC 27284. Hayworth-Miller Kernersville Chapel is assisting the family.