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Thomas "Tommy" Wesley Gray

May 9, 1938 — Sep 2, 2026

Rural Hall Chapel

Thomas "Tommy" Wesley Gray

Thomas Wesley Gray, 88, of Winston-Salem passed away September 2, 2026, at Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home. Born May 9, 1938, the son of Wesley Edward Gray and Ruby Bargoil Gray. After graduating from Gray High School, he worked at several local companies, retiring from R.J.R. Tobacco Co with 25 years of service. He was a proud member of Shattalon Church of Christ for over 60 years. A master at woodworking, creating many beautiful pieces for family and friends. His hobbies were fly fishing, NASCAR and antiquing. He was predeceased by his parents and sisters, Virginia Smith and Dorothy Money. He is survived by his wife, Carole, of almost 64 years. Three daughters, Karen Miller (Mike), Teresa Brown (David) and Donna Cook (Eddie). Five grandchildren, Sarah Stone (Steven), Amber Miller (Mike), Jessie Carter (Aaron), Grayson Miller (Briana) and Timmery Frey (Josh). Eight great grandchildren, Emma Kate, Charlie, Macie, Thomas, Olivia, Milena, Jack and Jude.

Funeral services will be conducted at 11:00 AM on Tuesday, September 8, 2026, at Hayworth-Miller Chapel in Rural Hall with Pastor Gene Woolard officiating. Burial to follow at Gardens of Memory in Walkertown. The family will receive friends from 10:00-11:00 prior to the service at the funeral home. The family would like to thank the staff at the Kate B. Reynolds Hospice Home for the dignified care they provided. Memorial contributions may be made in his honor.

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Visitation

Tuesday, September 8, 2026

10:00 - 11:00 am (Eastern time)

Rural Hall Chapel - Hayworth-Miller Funeral Homes & Crematory

305 Bethania-Rural Hall Rd, Rural Hall, NC 27045

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Funeral Service

Tuesday, September 8, 2026

Starts at 11:00 am (Eastern time)

Rural Hall Chapel - Hayworth-Miller Funeral Homes & Crematory

305 Bethania-Rural Hall Rd, Rural Hall, NC 27045

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